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Death Bat

ok i need help for real guys no jokes out of this ok?

1.ok well my life is sucking ass at this point in time im in love with a girl and she knows it but she is confused on how she feels about me and there is another guy she likes so that sucks but she is like my best friend she knows stuff about me only me and her no and its very confusing and complicated so any advice on that pm it to me please i need seriouse help

2.then there is another girlim like very much notlove but i have strong feelings for her she has a bf but i like her alot and that sucks any advice on that pm it to me

3.there is a new girl i started to talk to and she is awesome and fun to be with and i think im starting to fall for her but idk what could happen so soon i think i might fall for her the more i talk to her and i just dont know any advice on that please pm me


JUST HELP ME FOR REAL THIS SUCKS IM A WRECK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AND SHAS IF U MAKE ONEFUCKING COMMENT IM GONA DRAG U OFF UR FUCKING BUS AFTER SCHOOL AND BEAT THE FUCKING SHIT OUT OF U INTILL U BLEEP ON THE CONCRETE SIDEWALK AND IMEAN IT MY LIFE IS IN RUINS AND IM VERY EMOTIONLY MESSED UP RIGHT NOW AND I WILL FUCKING BEAT UR HEAD IN
SYLUXMASTER7227

hmmm i know how u feel on the first one
sorta
well i like a girl and im kinda confused about how she feels
idk who she likes tho



and yea about the chick you like liking another guy(for your problem #1), ppl get over crushes some times
if you truly have feelings for her. wait. ^^
THUNDAx

lol i have a gf, and she doesnt care if im interested in other girls...lol
Robby

Hmmm, alright brotha I'm listenin. Girl's can screw u up big time, talking about it helps, or at least in my opinion. Here's what I see. It's hard to really "be in love" with multiple people, but I'd say it is possible to like multiple ones or at least have your eyes on more than one. Well here's what I'd say for each of the girls here.


1. I've had something alot like this happen a few months ago and it beat the hell out of me for a while. A girl I had been really good friends with for months and thought liked me said something like this when I asked her out "Well, I think I like you a little but I'm not sure, there's someone else I think I like too". Now see, the someone else part can rip you up pretty bad, or at least it did me as well. If you can, I'd say maybe lean away from liking this girl if you can, I know this may not sound like the decision you want to make but down the road it will be ok. If your situation was kinda like mine then I'm guessing you might worry about your friendship or how you can "stop liking her" desite the fact that you have to see her all the time, that makes it alot harder to wear off.. Well I'll get to that later. But if there's is a really good chance you guys can make something out than by all means stay with it, but i highly suggest DO NOT wait around, I did that on 2 or 3 girls this past year and it made weeks and months off mental hell with the thoughts. If you can, (which you may have to) it's best to just slowly stop, make yourself pissed off at it if you can, when you hit the pissed off stage that sometimes seems to be the stage where you begin to get over then, not that it will feel good yet. Ok onto 2


2. If this girl has a bf I'd just suggest to try and stay away unless she really likes you. But I honestly wouldn't push to far because think of it this way: If she cheats on her boyfriend for you, or breaks up with him for you, she could easily do the same to you.


3. This girl, just by what you said, seems like she may be the best choice. I mean I don't know everything, but only from what you said. But if your starting to like her, the more and more you do, the less you'll like #1 and #2 and the less you will care about them. And if she's really fun an awesome to be around than that's always a big plus so it makes you feel good. Now see, what I would do for her if I were you, (if you already havent) drop hints that let her know you like her and want to be more than just friends. Because sometimes if you don't do that early you will get stuck in what I like to call "the friends zone" and it could wind up that she only wants to be friends meanwhile you like her. So I'd say start hinting that you like her, maybe in like lovey dovey kinda ways. lol, I dunno like poking her and funny fun stuff. Like ask her to the movies or something.



-All in all I know a few things. With me right now, I have a girlfriend (after a long awaited fukin time..) and I'm really happy with it, really happy. I could honestly say it's pretty much perfect. Infact the girl I'm dating is the girl I liked in the paragraphs above's sister! Now what makes it a perfect relationship and stuff is that I know for a fact that she likes me, I don't have to worry about her liking other guys, and she wants to be with me all the time. So there's no mental conflict whenever I think about her, or no confusion on anything, it's just pure goodness. Now what I'm saying is if there's girl's you like which you are getting quite a bit of mixed messages from as to whether or not they like you, then I'd say stop trying for them the best you can and work for someone else. Now I know that's much easier said than done (it's quite hard), and it's not like there are alot of girls out there to pick from, not alot of good ones at all, or at least that are easy to find, but it's not worth ruining yourself for someone if they don't fully like you back. My mom once told me that "when a girl really likes you she knows it, there's no question about it". So when a girl tell's you she confused or something, that's probably really not good and I'd try to let it go. ..Hmmm, well I think I may be rambling on now, but good luck buddy, keep me posted here and I shall get back to you. Hang in there mah man. And if there's not any girls you can find down the road, single isn't so bad once you find enjoyment in it, sure it's not the greatest but it's better than worrying about girls right?


-some advice from a friend. (I'm not no relationship expert but I can always offer my advice =]
Shas'o Keljel

Turn your Dick off Josh, it'll help

Honestly... It will, give it a bloody week, see if feelings change, that way you can tell if its just your dick or if you actually feel that way.

Oh, it might also be good to find out what you like in each girl and what you don't like. That way it helps for future situations.

But for your three problems specificly.....

1. Go for her. If worse comes to worse your still her friend and you can have a chance later.
2. Don't go for her unless you start having prolonged feelings for her like person 1.
3. Befriend her and talk to her more, you don't need to try to see if you have feelings besides friendship or even let that be known. Just talk with her.

Oh and last, if nothing works out your 16, your not going to get bloody married or something so just try to get over it.

There is a quick bit of information on my views.


Oh and here, Take the Fucking Ears Off

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dA0EVcrq71o
Death Bat

Robby wrote:
Hmmm, alright brotha I'm listenin. Girl's can screw u up big time, talking about it helps, or at least in my opinion. Here's what I see. It's hard to really "be in love" with multiple people, but I'd say it is possible to like multiple ones or at least have your eyes on more than one. Well here's what I'd say for each of the girls here.


1. I've had something alot like this happen a few months ago and it beat the hell out of me for a while. A girl I had been really good friends with for months and thought liked me said something like this when I asked her out "Well, I think I like you a little but I'm not sure, there's someone else I think I like too". Now see, the someone else part can rip you up pretty bad, or at least it did me as well. If you can, I'd say maybe lean away from liking this girl if you can, I know this may not sound like the decision you want to make but down the road it will be ok. If your situation was kinda like mine then I'm guessing you might worry about your friendship or how you can "stop liking her" desite the fact that you have to see her all the time, that makes it alot harder to wear off.. Well I'll get to that later. But if there's is a really good chance you guys can make something out than by all means stay with it, but i highly suggest DO NOT wait around, I did that on 2 or 3 girls this past year and it made weeks and months off mental hell with the thoughts. If you can, (which you may have to) it's best to just slowly stop, make yourself pissed off at it if you can, when you hit the pissed off stage that sometimes seems to be the stage where you begin to get over then, not that it will feel good yet. Ok onto 2


2. If this girl has a bf I'd just suggest to try and stay away unless she really likes you. But I honestly wouldn't push to far because think of it this way: If she cheats on her boyfriend for you, or breaks up with him for you, she could easily do the same to you.


3. This girl, just by what you said, seems like she may be the best choice. I mean I don't know everything, but only from what you said. But if your starting to like her, the more and more you do, the less you'll like #1 and #2 and the less you will care about them. And if she's really fun an awesome to be around than that's always a big plus so it makes you feel good. Now see, what I would do for her if I were you, (if you already havent) drop hints that let her know you like her and want to be more than just friends. Because sometimes if you don't do that early you will get stuck in what I like to call "the friends zone" and it could wind up that she only wants to be friends meanwhile you like her. So I'd say start hinting that you like her, maybe in like lovey dovey kinda ways. lol, I dunno like poking her and funny fun stuff. Like ask her to the movies or something.



-All in all I know a few things. With me right now, I have a girlfriend (after a long awaited fukin time..) and I'm really happy with it, really happy. I could honestly say it's pretty much perfect. Infact the girl I'm dating is the girl I liked in the paragraphs above's sister! Now what makes it a perfect relationship and stuff is that I know for a fact that she likes me, I don't have to worry about her liking other guys, and she wants to be with me all the time. So there's no mental conflict whenever I think about her, or no confusion on anything, it's just pure goodness. Now what I'm saying is if there's girl's you like which you are getting quite a bit of mixed messages from as to whether or not they like you, then I'd say stop trying for them the best you can and work for someone else. Now I know that's much easier said than done (it's quite hard), and it's not like there are alot of girls out there to pick from, not alot of good ones at all, or at least that are easy to find, but it's not worth ruining yourself for someone if they don't fully like you back. My mom once told me that "when a girl really likes you she knows it, there's no question about it". So when a girl tell's you she confused or something, that's probably really not good and I'd try to let it go. ..Hmmm, well I think I may be rambling on now, but good luck buddy, keep me posted here and I shall get back to you. Hang in there mah man. And if there's not any girls you can find down the road, single isn't so bad once you find enjoyment in it, sure it's not the greatest but it's better than worrying about girls right?


-some advice from a friend. (I'm not no relationship expert but I can always offer my advice =]



thanx robby man ur a good help ok well i figured out what im gona do im gona stay liking one but im not gona make a big deal out of trying to get with her me and two r just gona be good friends and im gona focus on girl 3 thanx dude and shas its not my dick talking cause i would only care about fucking them and its not like that with me i like the other things more and shas thanx for ot being an ass about something lol
Shas'o Keljel

What I ment about Dick, I mean sometimes your just attracted physicly and that passes normally really fast. So I said wait. Not go off trying to fuck someone.
Death Bat

yeah but im attracted eomtionaly to them
Shas'o Keljel

Well then, just take the fucking ears off
Robby

Yea i think it's more than just Mr. Peter acting up. lol. If that were the case it wouldn't screw up your mind. But good luck. keep posted.
Death Bat

thanx ^^
Shas'o Keljel

Hey Josh, advice, Just play Bioshock. That way your mind gets even more fucked up then it already is.
Death Bat

lol yeah wouldnt dought it that or read a stephen king book
Shas'o Keljel

Oh want to see my favorite quote in that game?
Death Bat

sure why not lol
Shas'o Keljel

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CCTH4hSBOQI

This is the song I have stuck in my head when ever I play a FPS. Picture a guy jumping around blasting people with a shot gun to it.
Death Bat

omg that is like the greatest song to play while creepy stuff happens lol
Shas'o Keljel

Screw You, Screw You, Screw all you Fucking Doubters!
Death Bat

that music fits any fps i just turned it on and whent and played call of duty 3 on the wii
Shas'o Keljel

That it does oddly... that it does
Death Bat

yeah go play unreal 2004 with it lol
Shas'o Keljel

I will also there is this part of Bioshock, the first boss

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G1ycPVAAzWI
Death Bat

to semetrical lol
Shas'o Keljel

Sucky Quality but its better then the rest, the piano scene

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XC9kHDSymog
Death Bat

wow that game is crazy
Shas'o Keljel

Ya.....

It is...
Death Bat

whoever came up with it has problems
Shas'o Keljel

Ya, thats what I said.
Death Bat

he was never hugged as a child
Robby

Wow, ha, this went totally off the topic of your girl problems. V.>
Kabal

Obviously they are resolved, no need to keep trudging up difficult situations. . .

Best advice i can give you is

Girl 1) Sometimes its ok just to have a really close friend that is a girl, just someone to talk to cause 90% of the time your friends arent going to be there to give a shit about your emotional side or when your down, but something about girls make them care and actually gives your closer relationships if you make them realize that guys arent just testosterone driven shallow idiots. If you love her then it means you care greatly about her and thats ok. . just make sure she isnt the type of girl that is going to be going out with a ton of guys and keep you as the "best friend' category where you do nothing more than watch her go out with other people and never you.

I have had that happen to me and it sucks and makes you feel like garbage.

Girl 2) Its really tough when you like a girl who has a boyfriend because when their relationship is going really good there is nothing you can do about it and you have the option to wait it out but considering you have 2 other girls who you are interested in, it makes more sense to with girl 1) or girl 3) because they are single.

3) New girls are actually awesome because no one knows anything about them and it is always fun to get to know new people. Try talking to her and getting to know her, and you said she is fun to be with so Let things kinda build up. . .dont rush any decision.

thas about all i got for the moment.
Death Bat

Kabal wrote:
Obviously they are resolved, no need to keep trudging up difficult situations. . .

Best advice i can give you is

Girl 1) Sometimes its ok just to have a really close friend that is a girl, just someone to talk to cause 90% of the time your friends arent going to be there to give a shit about your emotional side or when your down, but something about girls make them care and actually gives your closer relationships if you make them realize that guys arent just testosterone driven shallow idiots. If you love her then it means you care greatly about her and thats ok. . just make sure she isnt the type of girl that is going to be going out with a ton of guys and keep you as the "best friend' category where you do nothing more than watch her go out with other people and never you.

I have had that happen to me and it sucks and makes you feel like garbage.

Girl 2) Its really tough when you like a girl who has a boyfriend because when their relationship is going really good there is nothing you can do about it and you have the option to wait it out but considering you have 2 other girls who you are interested in, it makes more sense to with girl 1) or girl 3) because they are single.

3) New girls are actually awesome because no one knows anything about them and it is always fun to get to know new people. Try talking to her and getting to know her, and you said she is fun to be with so Let things kinda build up. . .dont rush any decision.

thas about all i got for the moment.



thanx yeah i think with u and robbys help i know what im doing no
Kabal

Good luck dude =]
SYLUXMASTER7227

yea good luck man ^^
Death Bat

thanx u want to know what im thinking of doing
SYLUXMASTER7227

yes that would be nice hahaha
Kabal

sure thing bro
Death Bat

ok like kabal said im gona stay with her and show her that im not just another shallow guy i think she already knows this tho from things weve done she said she does have feelings to me but there is the other guy and she doesnt know wich one she likes more so im gona show her i will be better for her then while im staying with her im also gona stay with #3 because if 1 doesnt work out i can have 3
Death Bat

ok now one and three both have bfs........yeah idk i feel empty
the hunter

That suxs, but just continue to be friends with them, It would most likely end, like all relation ships in high school, so just wait, you will get youre chance
SYLUXMASTER7227

tru dat
never give up ^^
the hunter

lol yeah, my ex girlfriend had a boy friend when i first liked her, did i give up? nope, i just waited and continued being friends with her intell my chance showed up..wich it did, So come on josh if that worked for me, then this is not really a different senario, just continue what youre doing josh, remember, you are not like Evan! thats all you need to know.
Death Bat

the hunter wrote:
lol yeah, my ex girlfriend had a boy friend when i first liked her, did i give up? nope, i just waited and continued being friends with her intell my chance showed up..wich it did, So come on josh if that worked for me, then this is not really a different senario, just continue what youre doing josh, remember, you are not like Evan! thats all you need to know.


i know i wasnt giving up
the hunter

Death Bat wrote:
the hunter wrote:
lol yeah, my ex girlfriend had a boy friend when i first liked her, did i give up? nope, i just waited and continued being friends with her intell my chance showed up..wich it did, So come on josh if that worked for me, then this is not really a different senario, just continue what youre doing josh, remember, you are not like Evan! thats all you need to know.


i know i wasnt giving up


ok so dont feel down because they got bfs, It will pass probly. just lean toward the one with the first break up.
Death Bat

i guess but i still feel like shit
Shas'o Keljel

Well... if you feel like shit you could always do the ultimate solution that starts with the letter 'S'
Death Bat

Shas'o Keljel wrote:
Well... if you feel like shit you could always do the ultimate solution that starts with the letter 'S'


sasquach lol
Robby

Suicide?  Wow, excellent promotion of great ideas.  =p  How u hanging with the situation now?
Brandon

it only takes one.... anyone that knows me can finish that....im also jokeing so dont flip....anyone that knows me....
Death Bat

Robby wrote:
Suicide?  Wow, excellent promotion of great ideas.  =p  How u hanging with the situation now?



im good now i was just having a super emo day instead of normal emo day its all good the situation is the same but ill get through it and no not suicide sasquach
Brandon

woot
Death Bat

yes woot indeed but if u wan2 see what im working with i posted her pic in the topic with my pics of me im so in love with this girl she is amazing hunter knows how bad ass she is
Kabal

Then dont give up on her.
SYLUXMASTER7227

thats always a good thing to do
the hunter

Death Bat wrote:
Robby wrote:
Suicide?  Wow, excellent promotion of great ideas.  =p  How u hanging with the situation now?



im good now i was just having a super emo day instead of normal emo day its all good the situation is the same but ill get through it and no not suicide sasquach



Remember that really emo day i was having a couple of weeks ago? hahaha, man i cant belive i said that.
Brandon

i had an emo day once... Atreyu songs started to make sence...
the hunter

naw, i was depressed and had some coca colas and the caffine made it bigger and i called josh. and was all like...talkin about death and stuff, a day later i was like..."wow, i bet that made him feel uncomfortable"
Lokker

Hell sucks, royally, but you gotta admit you learn they're not the one, right?

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